Alarming Trends
The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) reports thousands of cases of child sextortion every year*, and many go unreported due to shame or fear. Perpetrators often find victims on social media, messaging apps, or online games. Consequences can be dire; some victims have committed suicide, not knowing that there are resources to help.

Online Solicitation & Sextortion

Understanding Online Offenders : Protecting Kids from Digital Manipulation
Online predators are real. They may pose as peers, celebrities, or mentors to trick kids and teens into sharing explicit images or personal information, later using that material for blackmail—a crime known as sextortion.
What Parents Should Know
Predators often manipulate kids into silence. Regular conversations about online interactions, and making it clear that victims are not to blame, can break this cycle. Fostering safe spaces and supportive relationships can encourage youth not to keep serious situations secret. Knowing the signs of grooming and suspicious behavior is another key to prevention.


Never send explicit photos or videos
Even if the person seems trustworthy, these can be used against you.

Anyone can lie online
Be skeptical of people asking for private details or flattery that seems too good to be true.

You’re not alone
If someone threatens or pressures you, talk to an adult—fast.

Block them and report the account.
Don’t engage

It’s not your fault
If you’ve been manipulated, you are a victim—not to blame. Help is available.
Tools to Shield Yourself Online

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A concise guide explaining sextortion, signs to watch for, and how to respond.
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Target: Parents and guardians

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Discussion Guide meant for schools, classrooms, or youth centers to raise awareness.
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Helps facilitators guide youth discussions around digital exploitation scenarios.
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Target: Educators, youth leaders, parents

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Helps parents understand how sextortion can unfold, and offers practical guidance on initiating calm, nonjudgmental dialogue to support teens in similar situations.
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Target: Parents and guardians
*Source:
NCMEC Releases New Sextortion Data. (n.d.). National Center for Missing & Exploited Children. https://www.missingkids.org/blog/2024/ncmec-releases-new-sextortion-data